I have gotten dozens of massages over the past two years and have experienced involuntary ejaculation on two occasions. I felt a little guilty and wondered if there was something wrong with me until I started researching the issue. There were no sexual tendencies associated; but it did happen both times while the therapist was massaging my thigh.
How should one approach a therapist about this issue if they know they are prone to involuntary release. I do not want to wear clothing as it restricts the therapists access and I enjoy the benefit of the full body massage - so I don't want the therapist to avoid massaging my knees and thighs.
Just not sure how to bring up the subject.
May 02, 2011 Rating
Could it be your technique? by: Anonymous
As a client, I have ejaculated during a back massage. The therapist's technique had me shifting on the sheet with each stroke. As she worked on my back, it had the effect of stimulating my penis on the other side. I got an erection, but I tried to ignore it. As she started to focus on a knot in my back, her movements became shorter. I suddenly realized that I was heading rapidly towards ejaculation. I could not find the words to tell this stranger the predicament I was in.
I just wanted to offer this as a possible explanation. Your clients aren't telling you why they ejaculated, but that might be due to simple embarrassment.
In my case, shifting back and forth on the sheets created an embarrassing situation. I can't recall if this is a common technique, but this is certainly the only time I've had this response to a back massage. I'm sure I wouldn't have had this reaction if my whole body hadn't been shifting with each stroke.
Oct 06, 2009 Rating
From clients perspective by: Anonymous
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Sep 30, 2009 Rating
re: ejaculation during massage by: JR
I've been practicing for the past 15 years. Erections can be a reflex and I treat them that way. Spontaneous ejaculations can occur, but again that can be reflexive. I'm not offended at these times. If the client is grinding the table, touching himself, etc. I will ask him to stop or I will end the session.
Trust me, you will know when it's not a reflexive event.
May 21, 2009 Rating
Response to "ejaculation during massage" by: Anonymous
From my own professional experience, I wondered about that in my early massaging years and later came to learn and understand that it is perfectly normal for a male to ejaculate during massage as a way of releasing accumulated nervous stress in the body.
It most usually happens in and around, but not limited to, the individual's errogenous zones. As long as the individual is not manipulating himself causing it to happen, you shouldn't worry about it IMHO.
