Get out now. They are having sex and there is no way you can marry that woman.
Dec 27, 2011 Rating
Wow!NEW by: Amy
Get out now. They are having sex and there is no way you can marry that woman.
Nov 30, 2011 Rating
Big FishNEW by: An MT
Wow, this is quite a tale, though not very well written. The author is definitely titillated by his own dramatic storytelling. Both of these characters really need counseling. Even if one of them would not agree to go, the other still really needs it. Maybe in part three they will begin to sort out the fact from fiction in their relationship, and in their own hearts and minds, through couples therapy. Then the male may begin to learn that sensuality, the experience of every living being on this planet, is the way we are all able to learn, grow, heal, thrive, and exist, and is not only synonomous with this man's simple idea of sexuality. This story would continue to be boringly overdramatic just like part two was, if at least one of them didn't become at least a little more enlightened.
Jul 28, 2011 Rating
more than fishy by: Anonymous
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qh9ZZgDqzAg
I'm sorry man, you have to open your eyes...re-read your own post and imagine different characters.
If this isn't long and over with, you should go spy on the event taking place...look around to actually see is going on...hire a detective...you won't regret it..
Any girl that wants another more than you to touch her body, most likely isn't just getting a massage.
I hope that wasn't too insensitive, because it sounds like you really love her...but given the characteristics that you seem to show in your post, she doesn't deserve you one bit..and you deserve a girl that will love only you immensely.
Good luck my friend
Nov 24, 2010 Rating
DROP HER! by: Anonymous
Man...you are being deceived like a puppy...she and the therapists are having rocking 4 hours sensual lovemaking sessions that she cannot give up. She needs you emotionally but just cannot give that long sensual lovemaking with this fellow! What a load of rubbish she is giving you..you are defiling yourself with her.
I have given 3 women massages and 2 of them wanted me to make love and the 3 rd one, I did not because she was the older sister of a gal I was with at that time. Women, who feel comfortable with a male therapists are very vulnerable emotionally and sexually to them, Plus we know what areas to massage...
So get going bro...the loss is aint yours but hers...she ONLY deserves massage therapists and not a loving fiance...
Jul 15, 2010 Rating
things that make you go "hmmm" by: Kev
Wow...well, where to begin?
I am a male practitioner of massage therapy and have several female clients, most of which are married. Are there jealousy issues at home with the hubby? Some do suggest that there are.
A lot of what you've detailed here are very accurate portraits of what human touch does with the human body. In fact...any "good" massage (most modalities anyways), regardless of who is giving the massage, will elicit a response from the receiver of calmness, security, trust, relaxation, and yes, even serenity. Over time, friendships will be established, bonds will form, knowledge of the body and how to best relieve tension and restore to optimum health and happiness will and should be an end result.
What I find a little peculiar about your story is the fact that this male massage therapist / friend of your finance's has worked out a 'deal' in which he gives free massages in exchange for assistance with the 'art carreer'. To top it off...these massages sometimes last up to 4 hours?! I've topped out with a 2 hour massage and that usually includes partner assisted stretching! I can't even imagine a 4 hour massage. There are so many factors to this situation that I'm compelled to believe that there may be something "unprofessional" going on here.
The bottom line is...you can't 'force' your mate to give up a friend...or a massage therapist, and if you can - then there's a bit of a power-exchange taking place in which you are the Dominant member of the relationship and your fiance the submissive one.
Your statements suggest you feel 'threatened' by the male massage therapist (possibly for good reason) and that you also feel as if he would be 'tresspassing' into territory that should be reserved for you, once the two of you are married.
I suggest that if this already exists in your relationship...it's a bad omen and you should seriously reconsider going through with the marriage.
Keep in mind...even if your fiance were to find a suitable female massage therapist...a connection would eventually evolve between the two of them. There is a lot of positive energy exchanged between massage therapist and client, connections are virtually unavoidable. But these connections do not always have a sexual nature, nor should they.
Kev.
Apr 05, 2010 Rating
Very well written article by: Anonymous
Your article addresses a very important issue. I can sense your emotional hurt and I hope that everything works out well, for you.
In my opinion, you should, be strong and move on, rather than subject yourself to stress and emotional distress for times to come.
Nov 28, 2009 Rating
you need to grow a pair. by: Anonymous
your idea's of marriage are very close to mine. you shouldn't have to share your woman like that. do you really know he isn't "doing" her for sure?
i'd break it off now. the longer you wait the harder it will be to do. whatever you do, don't marry her.
Oct 03, 2009 Rating
why put up with that? by: Anonymous
I've got to tell you, your letter sounds slightly NUTS! I personally would not marry someone who would not give up their LMT for me, case closed. I would not care WHAT the nature of their relationship was, if my wishes don't come first, I can't see planing to spend my life with them (and mingling assets!.
You though, sound obsessed with your girl (and her vagina, and her muscles- all of her. My advice, get a new girl AND and therapist- you have issues, but being stupid is not one of them.
Oct 02, 2009 Rating
Cooperation is better than a battle by: Hans Albert Quistorff, LMP Antalgic Posture Pain Specialist
It pains me to see you in such a situation.
As a Christian I honor the marital bond. I always try to treat couples together. 4 hands are better than two. Having the partner do the reflexes in the feet while I am doing the neck is much better than trying to reach both at the same time. The partner learns the secrets of the other and is able to help them between times.
I never worry about loosing the client to their partner because because the result has always been I have two people referring new clients to me instead of one.
